Dom vs Prick

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Okt 23rd, '13, 16:20

  • Leidsin selle kirjutise FL-ist ja jagan
    Teema on nüüd küll mehe-naise vahelise tegutsemise kohta, samas annab ehk ka teistlaadi toimetamistele üle kanda.
    Jagan kuna minu arust on see arukas kirjutis ja algajale kohane lugemine :)

    The difference between a Dom and a Prick:

    A Dom understands that submission is a gift.
    A Prick thinks that submission is a weakness.

    A Dom understands that Dominance is a gift.
    A Prick thinks that Dominance is a right.

    A Dom takes pride in his girl, because he knows she is of value.
    A Prick takes pride in owning a girl, because he knows he deserves it.

    A Dom tells his girl how proud he is of her when she does well, because he knows how hard she has worked.
    A Prick congratulates himself for his training techniques, when his girl does well.

    A Dom sets clear, achievable, consistent expectations.
    A Prick sets arbitrary rules and changes them when he sees fit.

    A Dom gives reasonable punishments, intended to improve his girl, or her behavior, or their relationship.
    A Prick gives punishment because he enjoys it.

    A Dom rewards his girl for pushing herself past her previous limits.
    A Prick tells his girl "That's not good enough, let's move on to the next level."

    A Dom understands that the balance of D/s is ongoing work, needing constant tending from both sides.
    A Prick thinks that the work is done once the girl first accepts the collar.

    A Dom understands that a submissive might be smart, capable, strong, but chooses to give her power, her decisions and worries to her Sir because it allows her to be free.
    A Prick thinks that a submissive must be stupid and weak and unable to make decisions or think for herself, and he devalues her intelligence and self-will.

    A Dom understands that his girl's time, possessions, faithfulness and love are hers to give and should be asked for.
    A Prick assumes that anything his girl has belongs to him, simply because she is his girl, even though it has not been negotiated.

    A Dom is able to say "I'm sorry."
    A Prick never thinks that there is anything he needs to be sorry for.

    A Dom earns respect from those around him because he shows respect to others when it is due.
    A Prick demands respect from those around him by denying it to anybody else.

    A Dom earns love by giving it.
    A Prick demands love by withholding it.
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Nov 17th, '13, 23:41

  • Huvitav, tõesti. Äkki tõlgin seda venekeelse saidi jaoks. Kas on allik meeles, autori nimi vms?
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Nov 23rd, '13, 22:58

  • Autoriks on kasutaja GlassHummingbird ;)
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